豊橋の居酒屋『大漁』での追いコン二次会。「先生は学生に怒りますか？」と聞かれます。私の怒りの閾値を知りたいのかな？

７つの大罪で考えると、強欲による不正は許されません🤔怠惰による補充や故障の放置は、だめでしょうね。失敗には怒ることもありません。

「何に怒りますか？ChatGPTや車に怒らないですよね？」と答えると、学生から「私たちには心があるから期待してもいい」と返されました🙃怒らないこと＝期待していないと思われているのかな？

期待との差分はがっかりになるけど、怒らず、自分の教え方を見直します😌🌱ところが冒頭のような質問をする学生は、優秀なことが多く、その心理的な安全域で楽しんでいるようですね😊

At a graduation party’s second round at Tairyo izakaya in Toyohashi, a student asked me, “Do you ever get angry at students?” I wondered if they were trying to gauge my threshold for anger.

When considering the seven deadly sins, I cannot tolerate dishonesty born from greed 🤔 Neglect due to laziness, like failing to restock supplies or fix broken equipment, is also unacceptable. However, I don’t get angry at honest mistakes.

When I replied, “What makes you angry? You don’t get angry at ChatGPT or cars, right?” a student responded, “But we have hearts, so it’s okay to have expectations for us.” 🙃 I wonder if they think that not showing anger means I don’t have expectations for them?

The gap between expectations and reality can lead to disappointment, but rather than getting angry, I prefer to reflect on my teaching methods 😌🌱 I’ve noticed that students who ask questions like this tend to be quite bright and are often enjoying the psychological safety they feel in our relationship 😊